My thoughts
about Dr. Cornel West are the same, as I believe he embodies everything that
the course has illustrated about ethics and spirituality. It’s important to
understand one key element about people, which is that no one is perfect.
Everyone has their flaws and those flaws just show that we are human. I’m sure
there’re things that Dr. Cornel west displays within his personality that goes
against some of the principles discussed throughout the course in concerns to
ethics and spirituality. What I’ve been able to further understand, is
spirituality is a part of a person’s behavior, which is also a part of a person’s
ethical values. These are concepts, feelings, and ideologies that are built
into a person from personal experiences as well as culturally and religious
teachings. Dr. Cornel West is a man that hasn’t changed his behavior since I’ve
learned of his works and attitudes about societal issues. That speaks a lot to
the kind of person he is and the kind of spirituality he uses to maintain who
his values.
Friday, June 29, 2018
Leadership
The three
most important characteristics that a leader must have in the 21st
century is being able to coach individuals, show respect, and most importantly
have patience. I believe
that a leader must truly know how to coach/teach individuals in the 21st
century because of how diverse society has become. This will require
potentially going over basic concepts with employees in ways that are
understandable to them. Also, properly understanding what methods work with
what employees. I feel respect is a key characteristic for a leader to have in
the 21st century because of how easily people can be offended. It’s
important that leaders understand what is culturally, socially, religiously and
personally needed or expected when showing respect. Finally, I believe that patience
is the main aspect that a leader needs in the 21st century because
of the continuous changes occurring within society. Leaders need patients more
than ever when dealing with employees because society has created a system more
in favor of employees and less for the owners as well as leaders in concerns to
behavioral actions. Firing/replacing employees isn’t as easy or acceptable as
it once was, which means patience will be required.
Playing
basketball has given me a great understanding to an important element of leadership,
which is having the ability to coach. Understanding the role that coaching
plays for leaders is right up my alley, as I’ve witnessed coaching, been on the
receiving end of coaching and coached others myself. Coaching has a huge effect
on a leader’s ability to lead because it consists of observing, advising, motivating and being strategic. These are all traits that leaders must have to
properly lead their team/organization. To coach someone is to motivate
that individual to perform in a way greater than what they’re currently showing
or to maintain the great level of performance that they’re displaying. Coaching
also entails strategy, which means that sometimes encouraging someone to commit
to a certain role may be for the betterment of the team/organization.
There’s been
so many times in basketball where I had to step up and be a leader. A time I
can remember is when a team I was playing on was up against an opposing team
that was undefeated. There’s only so much a coach can do to rally the team
because he/she isn’t on the court as a player. This was a time where the coach
couldn’t say anything, it had to come from the players. I rallied my team
together and told them that the individuals on the other team put their shorts
on one leg at a time just like us and they can be beat if we truly believe we
can beat them. The game was tight the whole way through. During the course of
the game, I noticed a mismatch on the court with one of our players and one of
theirs. I keyed in on it and began to expose the situation, which gave us the
advantage. Our goal as a team was to keep the game close until the fourth, then
steal it from them in the end. I told my team as we were up by two with five
minutes left, that we were going to win this game. I went out on the court and
scored the next two offensive possessions, putting our team up by six with
three minutes remaining. The look in my teammates eyes, was one of
determination as we proceeded to finish the game on top, effectively beating
the other team. Within this moment of leadership, I displayed the ability to be strategic, motivate and most importantly lead by example through my actions on
the floor.
Thursday, June 21, 2018
Spirituality At Work
For me, as I’ve stated throughout this course
spirituality is a part of a person’s behavior, which can’t always be seen. I
believe it’s a part the calmest part of a person’s behavior. In the world of
basketball, the time where I see spirituality the most is right before a game.
Almost every team I’ve ever been on, players are either individually
meditating, praying, or zoning out to get focused for the game. I personally
pray before every practice or game, after zoning out to prepare. In sports,
it’s almost a ritual to huddle up with your team, to become one unit and share
the desire and aspirations to win, to have a strong practice, or to appreciate
the time spent playing basketball.
Some teams I’ve been on, pray as a unit in the huddles before games, which is silently agreed upon by the players even if they don’t believe in religion or the religion associated with the style of prayer being established. They do this because it’s a sign of respect for the overall team and even if they don’t believe in religion or the religion being established, they believe in the team. This is how the team infuses spirituality within the players, because it’s a part of being on the team, just like wearing the same jersey. Spirituality isn’t the focus of the team, it’s just a small element associated with the team, which is why it works. If spirituality isn’t overwhelmed on people, then they will be more inclined to tolerate it with no complaints.
Virtual Communication
During my professional career as a basketball player,
one thing that has been a common theme is the use of virtual communication. I’ve
used skype and WhatsApp for video conferences with coaches, GM’s (General
Mangers) as well as agents from different countries when completing contractual
agreements. Virtual communication helps multicultural, diversity and global
relationship in many ways. One way is with the difference of language, as
technology within virtual communication, allows for translations to occur. This
helps for a faster line of communication to take place, while allowing both
parties understand each other. Another aspect that virtual communication brings
is the ability to have face to face conversations without having to physically
be in the other person’s presence. This helps for human reactions, behaviorism
and a sense of comfort to take place. Most people find it easier to talk with someone
that they can see, so they can read physical emotions.
Virtual communication has been a key aspect to successfully allowing me to travel the world playing basketball on a professional level. Without virtual communication, I’m not sure of how easy my journey would’ve been because of the possible miss communications or uncertainties build up due to lack of solid communication. Unfortunately, technology has corrupted tradition ways of life in some sense, but it’s for the best in my opinion because it allows for us to reach out and respond to people all across the world for various reasons. Businesses can successfully be run in other countries without the owner ever stepping foot in the country where the business is located. Although, this has been accomplished before the boom of technology, now an owner can do it while being there virtually. This way, all employees can meet and greet them on a personal level. Virtual communication has been a positive for multicultural, diversity, global leadership, and motivation strategies around the world. I’m looking forward to the advancements of virtual communication in the future, as I believe it will only increase its success.
Friday, June 15, 2018
Integrate spirituality
I personally believe that my spirituality is a part of me, it’s a part
of who I am as a person and is a result of the region that I adhere to. I don’t
believe in forcing or integrating spirituality into anyone or any situation. I
believe there’s a difference between leaders being spiritually sound and
applying that within their leadership skills than forcing your spiritual beliefs
on a situation or person. Everyone has their own concept of spirituality, which
could lead to some confusion and miss understandings. To me a person must be
one with themselves in order to be spiritual because the big part of
spirituality is the word spirit. That’s the inner soul of a person, the outer
worldly concept that makes up a person existence.
I feel that people must first, figure out if they even believe in this concept of spirituality and then second, understand what it means to be spiritual in their eyes. In this era, spirituality has taken on different meanings but are all centered around the same concept, which is life beyond earth and preparing your mind, body and soul for it. If I absolutely had to try and integrate spirituality in a workplace, I would create meditation, prayer, or relaxation departments. Soothing activities, like yoga and massages while soft music is playing, this will relax the mind and body, which are key aspects to spirituality. I would also allow my behavior and lifestyle to show what being spiritual is doing for me and hopefully employees would inquire.
Non-Verbal Communication
Seeing how I’ve never had business encounters that were done in
person, I don’t personally know if certain tactics work better than others.
What I’ve always been taught is, that when it comes to making business deals in
person, is to show confidence, show professionalism, and don’t look too eager. Two
physical traits I believe a person should show during any negotiation confidence
and respect. Simple gestures such as a hand shake are one of the physical
gestures in my opinion that can make or break a negotiation. Having a firm but
inviting instead of a soft or overly controlling one, means a lot when dealing
with someone for the first time. Also, standing up straight or siting up
straight and most importantly keeping eye contact. You can read a lot off
individuals eyes and facial expressions. Sometimes some of these tactics aren’t
needed when dealing with the same culture, but I don’t feel this is the same
when dealing with other cultures.
When other cultures are concerned, it’s smart to learn the
traditional or customary ways to engage in a conversation but when trying to
strike a deal, depending on how even or uneven the deal is, some customary
traits may not be warranted as they may show signs of weakness. For instance, a
deal done between two kings, one king shouldn’t bow down to the other, although
it may be the traditional way to greet a king. For modern day times, there must
be an equal amount of respect for one’s cultural traits during business
engagements, if equal value is being brought to the table, in my opinion good business
deals can be accomplished.
Saturday, June 9, 2018
Spirituality And Religiosity
I am of Christian faith and my religion is where I get
my spirituality from. Religion has always been a huge part of my life as I’m a
big believer in prayer as well as having faith in God, knowing that he can do
all things, which means anything is possible. I was raised up in the church and
even though I hadn’t realized it until later in life, a lot of the principles
rubbed off on me, becoming a true part of what makes up my character, behavior
and overall personality.
Every religion has its own policies, principles or
ethical tone, in which the members of it has to live by or at least try too. These
rules aren’t always concepts that everyone in the world would be ok with
following, but some for the concepts no one should have a problem with. These
concepts all center around treating people with respect and fairness. In my
religion the 10 commandments which are our guidelines in which we live by, I
believe thou shall not still or kill are a couple universal principles because
everyone knows are wrongful acts and done anywhere in the world usually comes
with heavy punishment.
I personally don’t think about modification when following the policies of my religion, which is where my spirituality comes from, as I believe the holy bible was written for me to understand and follow the principles within it. That may make me sound somewhat like a zealot, but I just think that people try to modify their religion so that it may better suit their earthly needs, which may go against the spiritual guidelines set for them to follow. Being beholding to a religion can sometimes be a difficult thing to do, as it may make you give up on things that you like or want but these are the commitments you make to show that you believe and have faith.
Coworkers With disabilities
I’ve never worked with a person who had a disability,
but I’ve been around people with disabilities and the one thing that they wanted
most of all, was to be treated like everyone else. Now some people have
disabilities that need more attention than others, but those individuals still
want to be treated as normal as possible, just like everyone else. After
reading the Ten Commandments on how to deal with people that have disabilities,
I found it to be very robotic and not too authentic.
Since I never worked with a person that has a
disability, I don’t know how effective the commandments are, but I see a large
emphasis of the commandments being placed on not disrespecting the individual
because of their disability. So, there’s a lot of what I believe to be unnecessary
elements being added, that make a social as well as personable interaction with
a person that has a disability, seem very robotic and not organic. I do believe
there should be an understand of how to treat people with disabilities because
some people need help in working situation, as people can be flustered,
ignorant, or simply jerks. So, it’s always a good idea for
organizations/companies to have some policies that should be followed. I just
believe two people having a natural genuine working relationship, disability or
not is the best way to handle the situation.
Saturday, June 2, 2018
The Concept of Diversity
The concept of diversity to me is exactly what the word is defined
as, which is different. I think society has a hard time with excepting that
people are different, people think differently, act differently, dress
differently, and just are overall different. As a society, we must get to an understanding
that it’s okay to be different, that we don’t have to find similarities to
coexist. If we can first recognize that it’s okay for us to be different, I
personally think that will go a long way with people uniting, instead of
forcing people to be the same, which I believe is causing division.
I think of myself as being different than others, in the shows I watch, cloths I wear, music I listen to, viewpoints of societal issues and so much more. This has helped my leadership abilities because I don’t care what people think and I stick to the facts, no matter how unfavorable it may make me look. What this has taught me, is that more people are followers than leaders in the world. I believe today’s society is more controlled than anything, that people maybe different because skin color, religion or age but in the mindset of most people are programmed to think the same. To me, the most important diversity dimension is internal, because it deals with all the elements that make up a person’s personality. This must deal with a person’s experiences within the environments that they’ve been in. Diversity starts within a person’s mind, which is why a person’s free thought is so important because it lets the world know exactly who you are not what society wants you to be or agree with.
Minister Louis Farrakhan - Spirituality
The person that I came up with who displays spirituality, isn’t so
much someone I’m inspired by but someone who I’ve always thought was very
persuasive. The Minister Louis Farrakhan is someone well known throughout the
world as an American Religious leader of the Nation of Islam, a black
nationalist, activist and social leader. Louis Farrakhan has been the Leader of
the Nation of Islam ever since it’s the original leader died in 1975 and is
most recognized for his million-man march. A march in which he led one million
men to Washington in protest for politicians that will see to better treatment
for minorities in America.
Louis Farrakhan is deeply spiritual in almost everything that he
does in the public eye and his spiritual behavior is very persuasive, which
draws new follower-ship for his religion. I’m christen so I don’t adhere to some
of his religious views, but the two religions do share a lot of similarities.
Being very spiritual is one of them. One thing that Louis Farrakhan does well,
is speak, as his words carry a high sense of intellect, passion as well as
spirit. His words are very persuasive because they contain nothing but facts
regarding issues outside of religion. This, mixed with his spiritual nature, is
how he was able to conduct a million-man march filled with people of the
Islamic faith as well as other religious faiths.
I’ve always been intrigued by Louis Farrakhan because of the way he
uses is spirituality and combines it with his intellect. When speaking to
people, this is the type of approach that I’ve always tried to master and still
trying. To be calm while another person is irate, to lay out the facts of a
situation without confusing them with subjective thinking, and to stay
intellectually sound always is what try to do. It’s a struggle, what helps is my
spirituality and trying to understand how others, like Louis Farrakhan accomplished
this.
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